If you’ve ever stared at a blank screen, a fresh sketchpad, or an unfinished project and thought, What am I even doing? Who would ever care about this?, you’re not alone. The truth is, creating something—whether it’s art, writing, design, or even that dream side hustle—can be exhilarating, but it can also be terrifying. Because at the heart of creativity is vulnerability. You’re putting something out into the world, something that feels like a piece of yourself, and that’s scary as hell.
I used to think confidence was something you earned. Like, once I hit a certain number of followers or sold enough of my work, then I’d feel good about what I was doing. Spoiler: that’s not how it works. Confidence doesn’t come from validation. It comes from showing up for yourself, over and over, even when you don’t feel ready or “good enough.”
1. The Myth of Perfection
Here’s the thing: perfectionism is a liar. It whispers, If it’s not flawless, it’s worthless. And that lie keeps so many people from starting—or finishing—anything. I’ve trashed entire projects because they didn’t feel “right.” But the projects I’ve been proudest of? The ones I almost gave up on. The ones that weren’t perfect but were honest.
The key to overcoming perfectionism is realizing that done is better than perfect. Every time you finish something, you’re learning. You’re growing. And you’re getting closer to finding your voice.
2. Failure Is a Feature, Not a Bug
Every creative person has a cringe-worthy “first attempt” story. Mine? A digital illustration I spent weeks on, only to have someone casually tell me it looked “off.” I was devastated. I didn’t pick up my tablet for months after that. But looking back, I realize that failure taught me more than any success ever could. It forced me to look at my work critically, but not cruelly. It made me want to get better.
Failure isn’t the enemy. It’s the teacher. Every time you “fail,” you’re learning something invaluable about your craft, your audience, and yourself.
3. Confidence Is a Skill, Not a Gift
Here’s the thing nobody tells you: confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build. And it starts small. Maybe it’s sharing your work with a friend. Posting that photo or design on Instagram. Applying for a gig you’re not 100% sure you’re ready for. Every tiny act of bravery builds momentum.
Start by celebrating the wins, no matter how small they feel. Finished a draft? That’s a win. Learned a new skill? Another win. Confidence grows every time you show up and say, I’m here. I’m trying.
4. Create for Yourself First
The internet can be a loud, judgmental place. It’s easy to fall into the trap of creating what you think people want, instead of what you want. But here’s the thing: when you create for yourself, you’re not chasing trends or likes. You’re making something authentic, and that authenticity is what resonates.
Some of my favorite projects—the ones that brought in the most feedback or sales—weren’t made with anyone else in mind. They were things I wanted to see in the world. So, forget the algorithm for a second. Create the thing you want.
5. Your Story Matters
One of the biggest lies insecurity tells us is, Your story isn’t special. Someone else is already doing this. And sure, maybe someone else is creating in the same space as you, but no one else is doing it your way. Your perspective, your experiences, your voice—those are what make your work unique.
For example, I used to think the world didn’t need another blog about creativity or tech. But then I realized, my blog isn’t about being the first or the best. It’s about being me. Sharing my struggles, my wins, and what I’ve learned along the way.
Practical Tips for Battling Insecurity and Boosting Confidence
Start Small, Start Often
Not every project has to be a masterpiece. Create quick sketches, write short stories, or try a new technique without pressure. The more you create, the easier it gets.
Find a Support System
Surround yourself with people who get it—whether it’s a creative community, an accountability partner, or just a friend who cheers you on.
Detach from Outcomes
Not every piece has to sell. Not every post needs likes. The process is what matters most.
Document Your Progress
Looking back at where you started can be a powerful reminder of how far you’ve come.
6. A Personal Note on Letting Go of Fear
I still have days where I feel like a fraud. Days when I think, Why would anyone care about what I have to say? But I’ve learned to keep creating anyway. I’ve learned that the fear doesn’t go away—you just get better at ignoring it. And the more you create, the quieter that fear becomes.
Wrap-Up: Keep Showing Up
The creative journey isn’t linear. There will be highs and lows, wins and failures. But the important thing is to keep showing up—for your craft and for yourself. Because at the end of the day, creating isn’t about being perfect or making millions. It’s about expressing something only you can, and that’s worth celebrating.
So, pick up that pen, that brush, that camera, or that keyboard. The world needs what you have to offer, imperfections and all.